Listen, point blank, if a god/goddess does not want to work with you, they are under no obligation to do so.
They are a conscious being. They have thoughts and feelings. If they do not want your worship or to work with you DO NOT KEEP TRYING TO FORCE THEM TO.
You are blatantly disrespecting them and I promise you, it will only backfire.
This isn’t a hard concept.
I feel like this also applies to finding a patron Gods/Goddess. I feel like you shouldn’t force a God/Goddess to become your patron.
They need to come to you and ask. I’ve been a witch for 6 years and 2 weeks ago, Set came to me and told me flat out he wanted to become patron God and believe me, I worked with a lot of Gods/Goddess but they never asked to become my patron.
It may take some time to find a patron but you will, you just have to be patient and not force a God/Goddess to become your patron all because a witch told you that you need to find a patron the minute you become a witch.
Good addition
fair--y backup 