toffins:

help me move from my abusive roommates!!

hi my name is Connor and i am a 20 year old trans man who is currently living in arkansas!!

i recently moved from iowa to arkansas to get away from abusive family and for the past eight months ive been stuck in yet another abusive situation.

My roommates currently are very guilt-trippy and mentally abusive to the point that i am so scared to say no unless i want to be threatened or kicked out. they guilt me into using almost all my money on their wants and they gaslight me a lot of the times that i have ptsd attacks on almost a daily basis. they guilt me for even eating food too.

they guilted me into taking a job closer to our apartment because they got tired of me working at another job. i do not like this new job that i was rushed to get and couldnt put a notice in at my old one.

now i can never work for that company ever again because according to my roommates it was too far but then one roommate gets a job just as far in another direction and says that it is different on account of this is her job, not mine.

i have no family in arkansas and so if i am kicked out i really dont have anywhere else to go. i also dont have my car currently because i dont really have my license but i am studying for one!! i also am planning to move in with a dear friend in a more affordable part of arkansas in the future, but i dont want my roommates catching on. im plannin to save money but i still have to chip in so they dont figure out im tryin to leave them unless i want to be hurt again.

if ya wanna help, i have a paypal and a ko-fi you can donate to!! or if you cant, reblogging this is just as important and dear to me!! i dont want to stuck in another abusive home and while this isnt family, its still just as damaging to me and i dont want to go thru it anymore.

paypal: paypal.me/spudtnik

ko-fi: ko-fi.com/smorie

thank you so so much for reading and sharing and spreading this around it means so so much to me!! thank you and have a wonderful day!!